I've decided to focus on my career and building a future for myself (selfish!), and not bother to actively look for a girl. I don't know about others, but I think fate has a huge part to play in life and I just don't feel like luck is on my side. I'm in my late 20s, and everyone I know has settled down so while it may seem abnormal to be alone, I'm actually not bothered. But, the question is, should I be bothered? I mean, I am in my 20s right? But I feel like it's not meant to be so why waste my time/energy on it!
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If you're not bothered, more power to you. Focus on what matters most to you. Your goals.
Be happy you're in a state of mind where you can freely think rationally and to the point. Dealing with girls and the anxiety of being alone can change all of that, as it consumes your mind.
Build for tomorrow and take your time. If a suitable woman shows up in your life, its not like you can ignore her anyway. At least in my experience. Do what you can while you're in the zone.0