I am 18 and have always feared being in a relationship because I know that I'm not ready for sex.
Is it cliché that I put friendship, loyalty, trust, and compassion before sex?
A lot of people seem to disagree with me but I value a persons intellect and humour rather than physical intimacy.
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Importance wise I put it around like 0 or 1 out of 10... Not very important!
A lot of people doooooo think its very important and part of a Healthy Lifestyle and a Healthy Relationship or whatever nonsense they wanna believe in cuz of compulsory heterosexuality... whatever, lol... But not everyone, for sure. Not for me :3 I mean I don't necessarily value intellect or humour either... I just want someone to luv n trust n care about... Well, whatever. Yeah. I agree :)
I'm sorry that you're afraid of being in a relationship. It sucks that there's like so much pressure for that on u... But you don't have to negotiate your boundaries for a real relationship with someone. You don't have to compromise on that. I promise!2
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