Im a loving caring woman that has only taken care of my kids/man my whole life, im in a terrible situation! I left an abusive relationship and moved in with my friend/Ex. We spoke before I moved in we both made it clear that it was only for friends and to try and help me get back on my feet. I do not love this man and I truly thought he was my friend. But now he is making my life miserable because he wants more. He knows that I can't afford to take care of myself. I start a new job on Monday but this job will in no way shape or form be able to support me and my middle daughter who is 20 and going to school. I don't want to live off the state. I never have and its just something about me I can't do. Is bad as it sounds and as horrible as it is I have always had a man take care of me. To me that's just the way it was, I had my first child when I was 16. I worried about them and always stayed home with them for fear that nobody could take care of them the way I did. I also took care of my man/husband very well. I'm a great caregiver its all I know how to do, and it's what I love to do. it makes me happy. I'm attractive and funny and caring I'm giving I'm loyal. I'm just really stuck and wondering what men think about the situation. Please help! Please try not to bash me that's not why I came here. Thank you for listening.
- Is this right?Vote A
- Or am I a doomed woman?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Well. Do you plan to get a job to support yourself? Do you intend to keep that job after you find a man? You will eventually. If that's you, you're quite pretty. But if your daughter is 20, she's not a baby. It's time to cut that umbilical cord and let her provide for herself now. You need to worry about yourself for now. Then worry about finding a man to take care of :)
Even if that means state help. It's only temporary. It doesn't last forever. And everybody needs help from time to time right?1