Is it even possible to show a girl you're interested without seeming desperate?

Often times I ask a girl out and she doesn't even know I'm romantically attracted to her until I tell her, and she tends to seem shocked. I'd like for girls to have an idea of what my intentions are without having to have an awkward conversation before the first date.

What are the best things a guy could do to let a girl know he's interested in her without seeming to be desperate, or in a rush?

Girls: Ideally how would you like men to present themselves as potential romantic interests?


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  • 1. Make eye contact often (this is actually really important)
    2. If you tell your friends about her, make a plan to have them whisper to you and glance at her to have her notice.
    3. Be friends with her (this may sound really cliche but it is true)


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