Can we stop with the silly racist statistics already? It just opens doors for racial bashing. Majority of it is pure BS because it's more on a basis of that individual person. Are there weak white men? Sure, but there's also weak black, Asian, Latino and other men who are weak so this question is both biased and ridiculous. Men aren't made of stone. Having feelings, crying and being passive isn't something that's exclusively for females. Sometimes it depends a lot on the persons personality. I have noticed that introverts tend to be more passive. There could also be so many factors, maybe he had a rough childhood, maybe he has social anxiety disorder, it's a plethora of things that one can experience that will make them appear "passive and submissive". I would also like to add that being passive and talking things out isn't necessarily weak.
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Shame on you. Very racist. Even your title ticked me off a bit. Sad that ignorance runs so rampid in this world. You are young and dumb; so I will ease up on you a little. Color has NO part in how aggressive or not a person is. Perhaps it's his upbringing, perhaps a past relationship has left him walking on eggshells around you... Perhaps it's YOU who knows... whatever the case, this is apparently a part of his personality: timidity, submissiveness. I honestly hope he finds someone better than someone as apathetic and close-minded as you.
Written by a black girl married to an awesome, strong white guy :)
It was just that one guy lol. I had a white dude who was just wearing jeans and a long sleeved shirt (no gloves) shovel my frozen SUV out from the ice without me even asking. he just came over with a shovel and got it done. Ironically, there was a black dude who stood there watching the whole thing.
That's a very odd generalization and a false one as far as I can tell. Looking back in history white men have been extremely aggressive maybe too much in many ways. Even now they still tend to be that way. I think what you found seems to be an anomaly.
But in either case to answer your question as best I can I will say this: the premise of your claim is false because white men on the whole are by definition not weak because of the power afforded to them politically, economically, and physically. At best the stereotype of the modern white male has (seemingly) become more passive because of cultural influence. This might be because of feministic guilt for men being as they are. It seems to me that he specifically might not be your type.
Because they are socialized to be passive from teachers, parents, and popular culture. If they act up, they're put on medication to "calm them down".
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Let's generalise an entire race of men based on an interaction with one person. The level of intelligence in this thread is astounding.
Well you can't really generalize all white guys based off that one. I know a few guys like that. All mixed races. And I know some aggressive ass white guys. That's just how some guys are. Skin color doesn't really matter too much.
Are you serious? This is so stupid. Who wants to be told what to do or manhandled? Also, race has nothing to do with being an asshole. They're in all races. And I hope you find them all and they leave me alone. Because if my boyfriend manhandled me or told me what to do... he'd be single faster than a blink.
I have met different men of different ethnicity who can be just like this.
But But... he doesn't represent the whole population of white men though lol I have several white guy friends, they aren't even close to what you described. :)
Depends on a country, I guess.
If we're talking about the West, well, I think it has something to do with the forced feminization process of male population. Not sure why those at the top have such traitorous objective in mind, but in general I support it as long as such treason stays out of my country :)Maybe he doesn't want to be someone he isn't and is not in his personality. If you want an aggressive man that manhandles you and is very dominant, you might want to dump him and find what you're seeking instead of trying to convert the poor guy.
My father has always been the like the type of guy you're seeking and let me tell you I hated every bit of it; I have no desires for a man like my father. So here I am looking for a more docile, mild-tempered guy.oh the stereotypes again.. I bet you're the 'Asian' anon girl who keeps asking why people like Asian girls.
White men were portrayed as the gold star of strength, looks and success once. Now our societies had to portray us as foolish and weak to help make minorities feel better about themselves. We are expected to lower the bar so POCs from the 3rd world can get university degrees and to meet diversity hires quoter's while worshipping POC successes. Feminism help create the sensitive new age guy anyway so this might just be a lesson in being careful what you wish for.
You like a man who controls and dominates you, not a genuinely sweet caring man, that's all. It's nothing to do with race and you can't say all white men are weak, you've not met them all.
weakness has nothing to do with skin color, sister...
i dont think it has to do with race but a person's personality.
You can't find a white man to "tell you what to do"? LMAO!
You sound like butt hurt black girl who is bitter at white guys because they don't like her.
Is this you? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1290470-black-women-controversyBecause our modern day female oriented society took their balls. Thanks feminism.
I wonder how all those weak white guys took over and run the world?
Lol what? I like those traits you mentioned. They're not only in white men. They're in people who are taught how to communicate properly at a young age.
I don't like being told what I do but I love to argue lolThere a difference between agressive and assertive. Most people don't know how to be assertive because they think speaking their mind means being an asshole so instead they lie or say nothing. That is the weakness I see. those who are not assertive first become passive, then aggressive then passive again. Assertive people can state their minds and positions firmly without being influenced by another's reaction. Weak men base their decisions on their woman's anger or sadness and sacrifices his own values, beliefs, and opinions to keep her calm. Assertive men know that she will whine and fuss and yell but stands firm in himself.
Society, school etc. I remember taking shit at school for ages, when I lashed out (because the teachers were useless wastes of skin and organs and wouldn't do anything) it was me who got in trouble. I agree with you that white people seem to have lost a lot of backbone, but some of the qualities you've describe sound a bit twattish to me!
I've met plenty of white men who aren't passive or submissive. What you describe though "they tell women what to do and man handle them"... yuck, you can keep those types of guys (and I know for a fact all black men are not like that).
Weakness is not related to skin color if anything it's due to education or his way of life. To generalize a entire race based off the actions of one man is about one of the most ignorant choices I've seen yet.
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