I was seeing this ''white'' guy and he was pretty cute and sexy in my eyes, but one thing that bothered me a whole lot was that he was passive, submissive, Always wanted to talk things out, very needy and i just wanted him to man up and show me who was the man and stick with it. He would never say what he wanted and i like a guy who speaks his mind, he was in my eyes too timid, al tho he was nice, he was also very mean sometimes, like only when he is pissed he would say the truth... rarely and he would be very mean. Black men... are NOT like that, they tell women what to do and man handle them.. why is that?
Most Helpful Guy
Because they are socialized to be passive from teachers, parents, and popular culture. If they act up, they're put on medication to "calm them down".13
Most Helpful Girl
It was just that one guy lol. I had a white dude who was just wearing jeans and a long sleeved shirt (no gloves) shovel my frozen SUV out from the ice without me even asking. he just came over with a shovel and got it done. Ironically, there was a black dude who stood there watching the whole thing.21