I dated this guy about 3 years ago now.
We stopped talking completely 3 years ago but I would constantly run into him in college and he would either stare at me or try to be around me. I never got closure from the relationship and now he has moved on to another college and I haven't seen him this semester or the last.
Every time I am in the same places in college (which is like everywhere me and him went together) I feel sick to my stomach and feel like I am going to hyperventilate.
WHY can't i get over him it's been 3 fucking years and almost a year since I have not seen him at all :( Please I need advice.
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You aren't over him because I sense that you still have feelings for him. I mean , the fact that you're still talking about him and caring about places you used to go tells me your heart still hasn't moved on. Have you allowed yourself to date other guys in the mean time? The thing is that moving on is often a step that can take either a very long time or a short time. It just depends on the kind of actions you are taking. Any actions you do that keeps bringing him into the picture again (fantasizing, recalling memories, online stalking, missing him) will make it more difficult to heal. However actions such as finding new opportunities to meet guys, building self confidence and actively placing him out of your mind can make the recovery period faster.0
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