Sometimes I feel that most people settle, that's why you hear of couples coincidentally finding themselves in Uni, whether it be undergrad or grad.
I mean in a world of 7 billion people, what are the chances you just HAPPENED to love someone who you met in Uni?
It's more like a comfort zone than love, that's the way I see it. Kind of like, if you don't choose now, you'll be alone forever.
It 'love,' then, something that can't be planned, and truly only the lucky few have it?
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I think Modt people fall in love get hurt or find it to be extremely cumbersome being in love, then settle once they are past craving romance.
People who get married young orobably feel heavily in love. If they waited it'd probably have dissipated and they nay have decided the peson was not worth the effort.
People marrying later learn life is hard and msny want someone they can rely on and they will find someone they are not crazy about in their love hormone sense but highly esteem and think they can count on.
I don't think most prople marry there one true love. People usually fall in love when hormones are highest and intellect and wisdom are still developing. They feel it but dk what to do with it fuck up then settle with someone less dramatic... Which is probably anyone older than the person they fell in love with when younger and less emotionally stable themselves.
Part of the reason people always have bad things to say about exes is bc they too were less mature and less able to deal with things which contributes to the over sll situation
As they grow wiser their subsequent rekationships often will seem to involve more mature people... Bc they have grown themselves.
I don't think most people marry people they are in love with but that isn't necessarily settling. Falling in love us really not hard. People put way too much significance on its importance. In good and bad ways. Putting too much stock in his much someone cares just bc they are in love. Inversely worrying too much about what someine may want just bc they are in love.
Being in love is to rekationshios like horny is to sex. It's just a spark it diesnt mean much in itself.2