This is speaking from a good point because a lot of people are already in a relationship by that age and are looking at marriage. at least the people I'm around did it that way. But I really never had luck with the ladies like I put myself out there no girls ever talk to me if they do its strictly friends. Abd I'm the type of person that spends a lot of time and energy focusing on this and really its exhausting and I'm ready to say fuck it I can be happy without a relationship and it gives me more opportunities to do things single that you can't in a relationship
So at 23 should I give up on finding a girlfriend?
What Girls Said 6
I say focus on you. There's tons of time for a relationship. I didn't start looking for marriage material until I was almost 24, and that was just because I was so tired of the hooking up drama. But you should be able to be happy with you. A relationship isn't the key to self happiness. I understand where you're coming from, I've been there myself and it's a tough place to be in.0
Let it find you don't search for it0
Focus on your happiness, your family, your friends, hobbies, school/work. Whatever it is that you do. Don't make finding a relationship a priority right now. But don't say fuck it either. Never give up on love. It will happen, just don't put so much pressure on yourself to find it right away. (By the way, I was 26 when I got involved in my first serious relationship so don't worry. There doesn't need to be an age limit on these things).0
What Guys Said 11
Relationships come when you focus on your own life and bettering yourself. Women want a guy that has it all together. They want to be part of your life, not the center of it (reasonable women anyway). I'd recommend not worrying about it and just do your thing. It'll come.4
At 23 I think it is too young to give up but I am 32 and have never had a girlfriend. Most girls just treat me like I am the scum of the earth. That is what I get because I am the ugliest guy on the planet. So I have pretty much given up on relationships and I don't think I ever ever ever want to get married. Love is just a game, a joke and a trap.0
No way, mate. Never ever give up. Buddy, in that time you give up Ms Right can come on up and walk on by and you would have missed your chance, all it takes is a split second. Keep it going, mate, you never know, she may just be just round the corner :) Good luck Champ, I wish you all the best1
Why not join the Ameri Corp or the Marines or the Navy?
Those kind of eye opening world seeing experiences are best for people who aren't tied down by family.0
Dude wait until you're 27 and every single one of your friends are engaged, married or expecting. Yet you're still there like 'fuck, wheres the next party?'.
I've been single since I was 23. I haven't expected love to come to me, nor has it come.
That whole, when you least expect it thing is crap. Thats just makes you sit back while all the go-getters are getting their girls. Go out and get it, dont wait for it.2
i'm 23 too, never havea gf... but never tried finding one actually.
being in a relationship isn't everything. if you can't find one it's not the end of the world you know...1
Shoot I've seen people in their 80s get together its never to late.1
Are you kidding me? This is when the search should begin0
well you are 23, that is quite young sitll0
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