So I met this guy at the start of this year and we have been on a few dates. He finds everything I find funny and we can just talk for hours at a time, we both argue on silly little things and its just great how things are at the moment.
Problem is he is leaving to go to uni in another state end of next month and I don't want to lose him.
We were drunk last night and talked about it because I stormed away angrily and he followed and I asked him about all this and said I didn't want to leave him and he said that he didn't want to leave me either and i asked if he would want me to come to qld with him and he said if I wanted to that he would like me to because he says I'm fun to be around.
So now I don't really know what to do because I've almost been dating him for a month and I don't know if moving to another state and stay at my aunties would be a good idea or not? Help?
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On the surface it sounds like a high risk gamble. You've only been dating a month and you want to move to another state. On the other hand, what would you be giving up to move? If you aren't giving up anything important then you aren't putting much at risk except your time and maybe your pride. But if you have something important going on where you are now then I think the risk is way too high.
Bottom line is that one month is a VERY short time to jump into something like this. But only you know your own heart. If you really think he's important and aren't giving up much, you only live once, so go for it just for the heck of it.2