Hello, Im wanting to ask for a opinion about something my boyfriend said to me because it makes me feel sad. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, im his first girlfriend and he has abandonment problems, so he is scared of getting hurt. Just tonight because a male friend of mine started hitting on me, he told me in a message that if I want to I could cheat on him with how ever many people I want as long as it's just sex and not emotional at all. It really hurts hearing him say it and makes me feel like maybe he doesn't care as much as I thought? What do you guys/gals think, I really care deeply for him and want him happy.
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Thats rough. My ex has abandonment issues, we were together for 7 years. It's gonna require quite a bit of work between the both of you to help get through it. It's good that you turned down people in front of him to show him you want him only but sometimes a blatant act like that is not enough for a person with those type of issues, his insecurities may be so strong that you're gonna feel like no matter what you do, it'll never be enough to have him see and understand that you only want him. I've been down this road. Goodluck1