I am going out with this guy and we're bf/gf. my dad especially has been vocal about the whole event. he's said things like 'you stink' 'you should wear a sign that says 'free'' 'i don't know why you go home' ' i don't wan tto see your face' 'you're stupid' 'he's too old' 'he looks like a terrorist', he even went up to my bf and told him to fuck off and that my bf looks 'scary'.
the words my dad says are very hurtful and makes me extremely sad. i'm not sure how his words are to help me or what he has ever done to help me to be honest. i've paid all the tuition for university by myself, and work full time. he doesn't buy me things like other dads, or help with getting a car. all he does is stay at home and yell sometimes swear at the top of his lungs at other members, but at me especially. he's called me 'worst than a dog' and that all i'll ever do in my life is 'play around' or the only good thing i'm good at is 'fucking'. but there are worst things he's called me. i know if he's not there for me financially or emotionally, he should just stop because it's causing me emotional pain. why must he do this?
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You can't change your family. Just stop spending time with them1