I'm 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now. I feel like this relationship can last a long time. We fight sometimes over communication issues and stupid things, but other than that, we are pretty good with each other for the most part and we always make up. we fight just like any other couple would fight,.
My mother, on the other hand, keeps telling me that I should break up with him, and that I don't have any attachments and that I'm too young. It's like that everytime she sees that I'm having a problem, and it's not even all the time. Her solution is to leave, without ever suggesting on communication and trusting your partner. It annoys me everytime she feels that she has to tell me to leave him everytime when I am happy being with him. Like I said, we fight like any other couple would do so, but we always talk it out and communicate. I don't know what I should do.
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I think your mother should understand that you're grown enough to decide about it and deal with the consequences of your actions (good or bad). She's just trying to protect you from what she thinks that is bad, but she has to understand that this is your life and it's up to you to decide about it.2