Well I know this guys for like 5 years..we are really good friends,always have fun together,we go out for drinks,eat,movies.we are really good friends.I've always had a crush on him, but I never said anything,because I didn't wanted our friendship to be weird..few months a go,he started flirting with me over text messaging and of course I was playing along,He got his own place not to long ago and he's been asking me to go over.anyways we were on the phone all the time either texting or talking..finally this past Thursday I decided to go visit and check out he's new house,He texted me that day in the morning to confirm and said ok sweetie I'll cook something for you and we can drink and watch a movie..so I agree..so we started drinking and talking,laughing it was so much fun.I really enjoy being with him..we started kissing and of course I was in cloud 9,because I really like this guy,so we go to his bedroom and we had sex,i spent the night over,we were kinda of drunk,the next day in the morning he had to go to work and he let me stay there and sleep for a few more hours..He said I call you when I get out of work..So I went home I texted him during the day to say have fun at your poker party..he was having one on friday night..and he never reply back and he always reply to my messages..weird he didn't text at all on Sat and either did i..until yesterday I text him to make fun of him because his favorite baseball team was losing..he text back Don't start..lol.i was really curious to know if he felt weird for what append..so I ask him and he said no no awkwardness.i guess I was hopping for a more concrete answer..i text him the following OK just checking.i really enjoy spending time with you,you are a great friend and I don't want our friendship to change for what happened..and he never reply back..now I just feel really weird about the whole situation and I don't know what to do..i don't want to call or text because I don't him to think that I'm desperate to see him..i need advice!
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Well, you didn't do anything wrong. Normally I tell my girl friends to never give into sex too soon. But you've known each other for 5 years, so it didn't seem like you could have waited any longer. My guess is that, given how long you've known each other, there is some awkwardness. He's pretty unsure of what to think. Here he's always been your friend, but now things are a bit different. So he's just trying to adjust or think it through. One thing I didn't like, is that you both did this half drunk. You've waited 5 years to snag this guy, and when you finally do, you do it when your drunk. Come on now.
It is possible he got what he wanted out of you. One way to find out, is to see if he initiates sex again without talking about anything revolving dating or a relationship. If this happens, forget him. He's just using you.2