Long story short, I met this guy 6 months ago, he kissed me, it lead to a makeout session but I stopped it before it went too far (I'm a virgin). I introduced him to my best friend shortly after and he seemed very interested in her and not at all in me anymore, but she didn't feel the same way at all and rejected him.
He started showing a lot of interest in me again recently, asked me out a few times but unfortunately, I was busy and when I wasn't, he was. He texts me quite often now and also sends good morning/goodnight texts. He wanted to go figure skating with me this weekend and I said sure.
Now my friend says "he's a player and all the other girls must have said no that's why he came back to you, because he thinks he'll be able to get sex from you". She told me I should mention I have a boyfriend so he leaves me alone.
I honestly see no harm in going figure skating with him? I think I should be able to judge for myself if he's a nice guy or not if I go on a few dates with him. Part of me doesn't want to listen to her advice, bc I want to make my own mistakes, yet the other part of me doesn't want to get played and hurt.
I need to hear other's opinions about this, should I go out with him or listen to my friend's advice?
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You'll only be played if you allow yourself to be played. Go with him, just keep your thoughts clear and take your own conclusions about it.1