I went on an amazing date, he was the one who asked me out but then i was the one with the wild idea to tell him i have a surprise, so we went to another city and to a restaurant that served Moroccan food. it was great i could see his excitement and he told me how much i drive him crazy with the things i thought him. well i also had a good time and made the mistake of asking him to come up since i said i would show him some photos. i made it clear what i want, i travel a lot so i don't have any expectations from him but i am not into the one night stand thing, i just want to find somebody who is fun we enjoy our company and yes have great sex together. he said that is perfect and as he put it " what i can say is that i want to sleep with you more then once". ok so it happened we had amazing sex. he seemed quite interested to see me as soon as possible again, but i said let a day pass. since i will have a friend over he said to go to his place and he will make some food for me. yesterday he wrote to ask how am i, then mentioned it was a very busy day at work and then also on the day we are supposed to meet he will stay long so he will not have time to cook. so he told me just to go to his place.
now you see i am not so comfortable, the first date it was great i told him i am meeting him with no expectations, then we he said we should travel together and saw that we have fun together maybe some expectation appeared, not that i expect him to commit to me, but i am not interested in just sex.
i don't know what to do, i thought about canceling the meeting, but i do want to see him, then i am thinking of sending him a text to have a quick dinner at a place we both said we liked, i already said what i expect from him but i did not ask what he wants from me :(
Most Helpful Guy
You sound like you are confused as to what you want yourself. You need to talk to him more clearly about what you both want, then you will both have a better idea.
I don't know why you are scared. If you think he's getting too attached and you don't want anything serious then you need to talk to him.1
- Show AllShow Less