Long story short:
My ex and I were in long distance relationship. She was suppose to visit this Christmas from florida but she said she didn't feel comfortable coming considering she didn't feel the same for me.
I broke off communication with her because she kept hitting me up prior to it and giving me mixed signals. I would ask her if her feelings changed and she would say no.
So I told her never to talk to me again and she got mad at me and told me that she's done with me and it's better off that way.
one month later I hit her up and she was very welcoming. She then started mentionining how she wants to travel to Cali and check it out.
Two days later i asked her if she wants to go. She said yes. I told her lets go for two weeks and she said how about three? I obviously agreed.
THEN She said to me this morning that she wants to go as friends. WTf! I think she knows deep down that I still like her. Why would she want to go as friends?
Ladies PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND THIS LOGIC!!!
I told her I was feeling the same too (lie).
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Well honestly I don't think it's a smart idea at all to go with a past lover. But she means she really just wants to enjoy the trip she doesn't want to feel like she owes you anything sexually or romantically because maybe she's just not feeling the same way. Don't go if you are going to expect more out of this.0
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