been dating this guy for almost a month. we have sex. I've noticed that a few times he will be texting, and when i look over at him, he will move the phone away from my line of sight. In a four day period (before the weekend), he warned me at least 6 times that he had a crazy busy weekend (no details of what). he made a point for us to hang out on his day off because 'of his busy weekend'. just before his 'busy weekend', he texted me to say hi and "im headed into my busy weekend", I responded and i haven't heard from him in 2 days. **normally we text a lot, he will text me when he is working or busy too.
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He sure covered his bases, didn't he. Started early in the week so there would be no doubt he couldn't see you. Made sure he was covered to keep you from texting/not be "available" to respond if you did. Gave no real details; if he had nothing to hide, he would have said at the least "I'll be out of town, or catching up with friends" or whatever. The constant reiteration of the phrase "busy weekend" is suspicious as well.
My every gut instinct says he has some kind if weekend shenanigans planned, and it isn't with his Uncle Henry.
Still, after only a month, has anything been declared exclusive with you guys? I know you are sleeping together, but until it is obvious you two are totally "together" you kind of aren't yet. That will play into how you act about the deliberate vagueness in his behavior. If he is with a girl, like an out of town gf back for the weekend, but you aren't officially together, it is a TOTALLY d! ck move but not entirely "wrong."
Nothing to do but see how he plays it next week. Try to get some details and see how that goes.0