There's a shy junior girl in my high school and I'm a senior. Obviously I'll graduate before her but question is will I still be able to date her even after my graduation and me working a job and going to college?
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That's what I'm worried about with my crush. She's a junior, I'm a senior.
Frankly, you either go to college nearby, see her for a year, but then who knows if she'll wanna go to college in state too. And then you're basing your college decision off of her, which is usually frowned upon.
Or you maintain a LDR for a while.
So the conclusion ranges anywhere from "going to college nearby, then she goes to college nearby" or "long distance relationship until you both graduate from college.
The thing is, I doubt most high schoolers (other than you and I) think this far ahead. So they just go with whatever happens...
But, its not that unlikely for it to not work out, because back a few decades ago, this situation probably happened a lot, and back then people DID think that far ahead... and we have a technological advantage these days.
So... really you just have to see what'll happen and go with whatever feels right.
Good luck... we'll both be needing it.0