Why do people say that you shouldn't look for love?

I'm 20 and perpetually single. A friend was telling me the other day that you can't look for relationships, they just happen. However, I can't help but think that that is a load of crap because they don't just happen, at least not for me. It's very easy for someone who is actually in a relationship to say something like that I think, but she disagrees.
What do you think?


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  • I don't really believe that either. Going by that it means you should just sit around and wait for a relationship to happen without making any effort. People have been telling me that for years.

  • They can just happen, and sometimes do just happen. But sometimes, if you want something, you can't wait for it to fall on your lap, you need to go out and get it.


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