4 months ago I started dating this guy... I met him when I was on my first yr of college, 4 years ago... he was a very nice nice guy and he was very persistent with approaching me, so I gave him a chance... at first he used to send me these beautiful text messages telling me how much I meant to him... how he was blessed to have me in his life and sorts of things... he made me feel like the most perfect woman, and very loved.. he used to always say how he misses me after not seen me for one day and that it sucked, which it was cute because I loved that feeling since in my last relationship my ex was kind of a one way street and he was very distant from me at the end... well about 2-3 weeks ago he started to say he is not used to being with someone soo much ( mind you I only see him in the weekend and that week I saw him for 3 days straight because we had a snow storm and I was at his place) so we kinda distanced himself from me a bit because he needed he's space... we got into an argument because I told him how I missed hearing from him one day and he was very rude, he ended up apologizing afterwards. last weekend I planned a overnight stay at this casino and it was amazing for his bday that is coming up, we were having an amazing night, I had a bit too much to drink... we both did but I did more than him... he told me to act mature because I could not walk straight infront of people which put me over the edge and I flipped out. I said mean things but so did he. I took responsibility for my actions and my mistakes. but after the fact he continues to tell me how I ruined everything and almost ruined us. and how he was going to ask me out and I ruined that too so I am kind of in a trial period.. it makes me feel soo worthless and hurt. since I've been doing everything I can to make this guy happy, and treating him like a great person should be.. and now this happens. what should I do
What should I do?
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I don't hang out with the same friend every weekend. I want to have time for myself, time for other friends. The worst decision a girl can make in a relationship is to stop living for a guy. No matter what he says, or how in love he seems to be, have a life. :) You two are your own special independent individuals enjoying each other. That is probably why you feel worthless now, because he's basically your life. So the fight could have been another obstacle you and he worked through together instead of a ending point. Tbh, I don't know if you can fix this relationship, both of you are too needy. I know it's hard, but I think you and he should move on and learn from this experience.0
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