I've slept with a fair few guys & have had an on/off relationship with a guy for the last year & a half.
I think that is going to be ending because he has admitted that he can't commit. I am ready to settle down into a secure long-term relationship.
How do i get guys to want this & not just to sleep with me after a night out at university?
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You sleep around and now you decide you want a decent guy. Let me ask you, what makes you think that you deserve this?
If a decent guy had a choice between a nice. trustworthy, traditional "relationship material" girl and you, why on earth would he pick you?
Ok I know it seems harsh when I put it this way but this is the position you have put yourself in because of your past. Its like you are a used car that's been taken for a joyride. How many "decent" people are going to want to buy that?0