Did I make a mistake in trying to be BWF with a close male friend?

For the last month or so, he's been quite uneasy that I'm hanging out more with my friends and dates and calling me in the morning and night to say ''good morning'' and ''good night''.

Lately, he's been calling asking when we can go on a date and how he missed me. I'm starting to wonder if it was a mistake being a BWF with a close male friend that once (long ago) drunkenly admitted to having a crush on me for a long time. Though when I confronted him with this, he said he was just drunk talking nonsense and that he was ok with just casually hanging out and being my BWF.

We've known each other since 8th grade in middle school. But I have no romantic feelings for him.

I just took his word that he was just drunk and can handle just being my friends with benefits . Apparently not.


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  • You just have to be clear about not having feelings for him.