I found out some bad news today. I'm really upset about it... My dad passed away this morning. I've been crying for over five hours and throwing up all day (I throw up when I get upset and it's really embarrassing).
My boyfriend wants to come over and keep me company but I don't want him to see me in this state. I'm a mess with all the crying and vomiting and my face is all red. I live alone so he says he's worried about me. I could really use some company and someone to hold me but we've only been together three months and I don't want this to ruin his attraction to me.
Guys: your thoughts? Would seeing your girlfriend in hysterics crying and being sick to her stomach be a complete deal breaker?
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You are grieving. There are no rules for grieving. I'd want to be there for my girl going through this. But your relationship may not be mature enough to sustain this stress. Tell him you're not ready to have him there just yet.
Being alone in this just sucks. Call a family member or friend from time to time. Listen to some music.
I am so sorry for your loss.0