We have been dating for 4 months now. Yesterday she broke down and told me about her night at a bar. I took her to the bar and dropped her off because I was sick. She went and got shitface. I picked her up and we went back to my place for the night... this was a few weeks ago.
Yesterday she broke down and told me that she kissed a guy at the bar that night. She said that she knew him from highschool but never talked to him or even has her number. She said that he was buying her drinks that night. She said she was sorry, I accepted her apology. I'm still kinda wondering what happened, like was it just a kiss, did she make out with the guy, what? I don't know. Girls, if you say you kissed a guy at a bar what does that mean?
Did I do the right thing?
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Break up. Two mistakes happened here. First, yes the kiss, second - she never should have gone to the bar without you. If you are sick she should have stayed with you. Because she went to the bar without you that means the bar is worth more to her than you are and this is only proven because she kissed this other guy that night. Since you two are still somewhat new in the relationship, she should still be head-over-heels excited about being with you, super happy new stage in your relationship. That should have easily overpowered any desire to kiss this other guy. For her to kiss this guy, "from high school" means you simply aren't that high on her list of priorities or important things or her thoughts. I think she kissed this guy because she isn't totally into you. I think you should kick her to the curb and move on. Good luck!2