Im sure tons of ladies have asked this before. but im genuinely clueless whats going on in the back of a guys mind. here's a better way to put it lets say you see a girl in your circle of friends you talk to her and you are instantly star struck. would you first feel attracted because of her appearance/what she was wearing. or would her personality win you over?
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Well I automatically filter out girls who are too attractive. If i'm really attracted to them physically I just ignore them completely because I know i'm never going to be with them. Generally I tend to look for a 4 or a 5 because they'll be much more forgiving to bad social skills. Having a great personality would be awesome but girls with great personalities also aren't interested in me.0