Here's a bit about me (other than my pic)
I have a lot of passions for stuff like music, nature, art and video games. I love being out and exploring by kayak or on foot on the trails. I'm down to earth and am pretty outgoing once I get to know you, but a bit shy at first. I tend to make friends and socialize well but I've never been able to get girls to hint interest. I've officially given up on using sites like Tinder or OkCupid because after an entire year of putting myself out there in good faith, not even a single match came of it. Tinder suggests I'm very undesirable because, I mean, it's a dating app based off of sexual attraction, right? I personally think sexual attraction is pretty necessary for a strong and healthy romantic relationship but it seems to be that I am lacking. In spite of my obvious struggles with attracting girls, I really can't see much wrong with my looks. I'm just wondering, could I be extremely unlucky or cursed, or am I just a "friendzoned" guy?
Most Helpful Girl
I would say yes it's normal because if I say no then that means Im saying "Its abnormal." which is not the case. There's no time limit on these things. Dont make yourself feel bad about this thing. I'll say think about all the experience you've had with girls (period) & try to see if u notice a pattern. Maybe you'll notice a mistake that u keep making. Not saying its your fault. Perhaps its the type of girl u go for or something of the sort. But just dont beat yourself up. Life goes on. Im sure ur a great guy regardless & u will be a good catch to someone. :)0