I have a friend (that's a girl) and we text all the time (I don't think there's been a day that's gone by since the new year that we haven't texted each other, sometimes she texts me first sometimes I text her first). Most of our conversations are random but we talk about some "deeper" stuff at times. We go to the same school (rarely see each other during school day) but we're in this same club and we hang out a lot, it seems like she wants to hang out with me.
other useful info: we are about 3-4 years apart (i'm older), we're both single, we just met last October
- She wants to date youVote A
- She wants to be just friendsVote B
- I just want to see what other people votedVote C
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Honesty, I can't tell you. I don't know this girl, and I don't know her style of flirting, as it differs from person to person. To be fair, if you are that much older than her, I would say that most likely, she fancies you/ would go out with you if you asked. She probably thinks that it's cool for an older guy to want to hang out with her. If you do end up asking her out, though... just keep your eye out for signs. You want to make sure that she's not showing you off too much to her friends, and then not being as close when it's just you two as when you're with other people. If that happens, there is a chance that she just wants to make herself look more desirable to guys in her year.
It's 100% your move. If you fancy her, then ask her out, and see what happens. If you don't fancy her, ask her if she has a crush in her year. I don't know, maybe you could be seen around school together more (as friends or as more than friends if you're ok with it) to help her out with getting her crush to notice her. :) all the best (and if you have any questions, comment or message me) --- by the way how old are you both?3