I dated a girl for a month. 5-6 dates. She was definitely into me and we had an awesome connection. She even treated me a couple of times on dates. Last two dates I moves. The first time I asked her if she wanted to have sex when things were getting hot. She said she wanted to wait. She was all smiles and laughing that night. We had a good time talking and she said she liked me. Second time around things were even hotter. We were all over each other. I asked again in the heat of the moment and said she wanted to wait. I told her it was ok and I would wait. She said she was sorry with a guilty look and i told her she didn't have to be. After that she jumped on me and was all over me. Two days later she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and was scared. I realized I may have pressured her and felt bad. I like her.. I said I would wait. Three weeks passed and i shot her a text today and asked how she was doing. She was short and said.. pretty good really busy. She took a few hours to resp. Is she wanting me to own up to my behavior?
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I've messed around with a girl like this once, she turned out to be manipulative and left me for another guy because i was under her spell. she may be messing around with another guy but there is no guarantee of it. if there is another guy then you are probably number two. what is there to be afraid of? its only been a month anyway, dont rush things so soon. just be calm and don't over think it as love or her being afraid. if I've learned one thing about women its that if there is another guy texting her, then you should just do your own thing and not worry about it. if she wants commitment she will spend time with you or ask," what are we?" the girl i messed around with had multiple guys trying to win her over and she went after me because i wasn't trying to prove to her that i could love her or always be there for her. while these other guys would shower her with attention she would always come to me instead of them. she once had a date with a guy who would constantly text her 24/7 and be super nice to her but canceled on him and had sex with me that night. your not dating her yet so you don't really have to be there for her yet. let her come to you. also i never ask for sex, if your in the moment then you jump on it.0
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