I have been seeing this girl for a month, we go out once a week and then she stays at mine for the night. I like her plenty, but I am abroad for 8 months and I recently had an opportunity with another girl and we have been texting.
The girl I have been with for a month knows I am leaving and we have never talked about 'us'.
What do you think? I have never had multiple options before
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You'd best have the 'us' discussion, then, instead of making assumptions.
I'm long-distance with the woman I'm seeing. We met online. I told her I didn't want her putting her life on hold for me (it'll be months yet before we can see each other in person), but we basically agreed to exclusivity - we'd both let the other know if we were going to start seeing other people. Several months in, neither of us has done so.0
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