Recently single, my ex cheated on me. We were together for 4 years etc etc
Anyways I'm putting myself out there, and hopefully will go on a few dates, I do not want to do the online dating scene, so I need to work on my courage to talk to the attractive women on campus. How should one approach? And how to get over the fear of Rejection
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well first up I'm sorry to hear this happened to u.
second, props to u for not turning to online dating, but i encourage u not to look for dates just for the sake of it. remember only to put urself out there when u feel ready to love again. dont force anything. also, dont just think of the attractive women. while i understand physical attraction is important, dont rule out anyone else because of the way they look. it's not fair at all.
when u do decide ur in a good place, u can approach a woman by not coming off as a perv or creep, but someone who just wants company. dont start off with a compliment, as weird as it sounds. saying 'hi', smiling or asking if u can join her [if she's alone] is just fine.
you'll only get rejected if u think a woman is some kind of object or prize that ur trying to win. if ur really a good man with good intentions, then you'll want to win her mind, and eventually you'll win her heart.0