I have been told many times how good I look (with clothes on) by many men but, my last boyfriend of 6 years made terrible comments during fights about my stretchmarks, I think to make me insecure and it worked but now I'm seeing someone new and without kids and I'm so worried that when we become intimate he will be disappointed it's too the point that I'm thinking about ending us b4 we get to that point he's getting so anxious and I am also but to scared to go through with it keep saying is to soon I'm also scared that ill hold back not preforming as well as i do during sex trying to hide them. I don't worry about him saying any thing during or maybe not at all but perhaps break it off after without a word then I would know why. My ex is very shallow I learned late in our relationship but I'm very self conscious now and I'm sure my new guyv pictures me flawless he also has no kids so possibly never saw stretch marks before I know if a man loves a woman they don't probably bother him but we don't live each other and I'm not that old fashioned to wait till then and I feel falling in love had a lot to do with the sex. So I more want to hear from men who are surprised from a new womanwith them and I also was wondering if I should "warn"him n if so HOW?
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I dont think its a big deal. try not to think about it to much. if u are both anxious about it, u should tell him why u keep saying its to soon so he knows and it will help releave any presure.2