Im thinking about sending him a pizza with Sorry written on it.
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No you have the right to ask him anythig dont apologize3
Depends. if he is very honest indeed and you questioned his honesty not the first time but more, then yes its expected of him to be angry.
if its the first time, maybe he's over reacting. but every person is different.
also the issue on which u questioned his honesty matters.. was it dear to him? then yes he's angry and its fine.
so it all depends, relationships always a subjective topic.
ps: any special gesture from ur side which from ur experience u think will make him smile is gud enuf.
It's game over for you. Any man who 1) has functional testicles and 2) is not married to that female would hit the eject button. More than sex, trust is more important to a man. If you don't trust him or question his honesty, he views it as an attack. For the most part, unless we are masochists, we don't tolerate attacks from our females. You should move on. He if accepts your apology, you will eventually attack him more and you will disrepect him. Bad times will follow. Don't waste your time. Don't waste his time. Move on.
I would sent it back to you with "fuck you" written on it.
apologize in person. Write him a heartfelt note. find something more personal
So I'm seeing a lot of girls saying that if he got angry about his honesty being questioned then he must be dishonest. That's 100% B. S. I've had people accuse me of being dishonest before when I wasn't and that offended me. If someone questions my honesty once I give them a dead stare and a blunt "No I'm not being dishonest" If they do it again I consider if they're worth dating. Honesty is everything to me and if someone is trying to accuse me and make me feel guilty when I haven't done anything wrong they're gonna get kicked to the curb.
I don't think its a bad gesture but I would want to apologize to him in person as well. What I think would be better is to get a pizza or something else he likes delivered to him and make sure he gets a letter of apology saying you would want to talk to him in person to explain why you questioned him in this way and apologize to him directly. This is of course assuming you aren't on speaking terms right now. If you are on speaking terms you can take a bit more of direct approach. If this is the case apologize directly and make a peace offering like the pizza or something else he likes.
No! Asking him if he was being honest is no crime as long as you were respectful. You can apologize for him getting offended but don't go to that much trouble to show him that you're sorry or he will expect/demand that anytime he decides to get offended. It was a misunderstanding so just politely apologize, but don't go to such great lengths. One time I did something stupid and when I was apologizing to a guy and I cried and after that he wouldn't accept my apologies unless I was crying. I'm not saying this guy is gonna be that extreme, but if you make sug a big deal out of it he will too because that's just human nature. And if you do something that's worse than a little misunderstanding and go to less efforts to apologize, he will be confused (which makes sense because that would be confusing) and may even question if you are truly sorry. Its much more wise to just apologize for the misunderstanding and move on
yes if you wrote sorry in the pepperoni that would be an adequate apology. but why don't you send me a pizza apology first just so i can uh... see if you got the specifications right :P
That's a terrible idea.
Send him a Happy Meal instead.
The gesture is nice... but u still need to have a conversation with him and apologize.
Depends on how you questioned him and what it was about and how hard he took it and whether he is actually honest.
How in depth did you question it? Did you in any way say or imply that he was lying?
A pizza is a rather trivial offering considering the offense
It depends on how hurt he is. If it's too bad you might get the pizza back, if it's a simple missunderstanding then he'd appreciate it
send him a cake with sorry not a pizza
When you question your man's honesty... One has to wonder if you are honest yourself. People are going to do what they will do.
Yes it usually means he's honest after all cops look at people who get angry when they're accused of something they didn't do to tell maybe he's innocent
Gust tell him that you are sorry and you need to be honest with me as to why you questioned him
If I were mad and you sent me an apology pizza... you would be granted with eternal forgiveness
will the sorry be written in pizza sauce?
I would prefer a note where you show your honesty. But only do that if he indeed has reasons to be angry. If he is being a pssy then just let him sort his felling alone.
Nope! That good you are honest with him. Remember people hate to hear the truth. People just don't get angry without a reason.
Pizza is always good. Always. But have you thought about if he's being rational? Like, has he ever given you an actual reason to question his honesty before?
Was there a reason to question his honesty?
What did you say?
U wanna know text me and the psychology major shall enlighten u
Instead send him you're vagina with sorry written on it. I'm pretty sure he will love that
No, that's an awful idea. Be an adult and talk to him. Your idea will only offend him further.
Yeah, his anger is valid, however you questioning his honesty is concerning. It means you don't trust him. So he probably has done something to hurt you. Which is really unfortunate. However, it means both of you reacted naturally if this is the case. If there is an underlying cause to the distrust I would get that solved first before you send the pizza.
Depends on what context did you question his honesty. Either he is an honest person or he's offended to cover up his lies more. Only context of the questioning can confirm that.
Well first of all you must have had a reason for asking... That's no crime. Accusing would be wrong but asking is just fostering open communication- which is very important.
If you apologize for that it actually sends the message that communication is not acceptable. You should be showing by - good- example rather than a
Apologize for it
If you -falsely- accused him then you should apologize , but pizza is not necessary.
You have the right to ask your boyfriend that question if you expect something is up. Though I personally would not send something like that, talk to him in person and say you are sorry. Nothing upsets me more than not talking about your relationship to your partner in person.
He probably wasn't being honest and that's why he's pretending to be offended. Don't get played.
Maybe he's offended that you asked him? Or maybe he is feeling guilty and trying to mask it by being defensive and getting angry
Don't send him the pizza! If he is honest, then he can explain himself calmly without getting angry. If you send him a pizza for acting out of whack then he is gonna walk all over you for the rest of the relationship
Why the fuck is he getting angry in the first place. Don't send him no damn pizza. A man that gets angry over the smallest things is not a good guy. Trust me.
Why would he be offended at questioning his honesty unless you were accusing him of lying?
make him a sandwich instead
Normally that means he is dishonest
Yep pizza will definitely work. I'll take one too lol
you have to act like lesbians do then no problem.
Some people act offended when you question their honesty because they are guilty of a dishonest act and they know it. Please be careful. Don't be manipulated.
No pizza.. make it personal. . It's hard to hear the truth at times.. but it's even harder to say it.. (I think)..
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