I keep meeting all these damaged guys who are just fed up with emotions and commitment because of past break ups. Are all the other guys taken by 24?
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I'M ABOUT TO TURN 24 AND I'M SO SCARED WUZZ DA FUKK2
I notice this about the girls I meet as well. They're constantly bitter over some ex. They hate affection, but want commitment yet complain that guys just want sex and say they were used and so on. It is really odd.
I have had relationship problems with girls but it is all in the past. However just from the casual dating alone I found that I'd constantly end up on dates with screwed up girls. These girls seem to want everything without any effort and want to be special at the same time just for being a girl. I got tired of going on these dates and now just hook up. I'm sure there could be a girl out there I could settle down with but the chance of finding one are rare. I'm surrounded by drunks, single moms, potheads and they think they're entitled to a "good man" who they'd just drag down to their level should a good man date them.
I don't think so, and I hope I am not. But being fed up with emotions and commitment, some guys after MANY bad experiences develop a knee jerk reaction to commitment because of bad experiences, just as some older women are jaded so are some older men. Keep in mind even the ones taken by 24 are more likely to become divorced later in life (people who marry young have a really high divorce rate!) May become jaded or damaged after a bad divorce. Not saying all guys or even all women are like this but is seems that far too many are today.
I know many guys that are actually looking for a commitment, but find women who won't even entertain the idea out of jadedness :(
I think a higher proportion of people are carrying baggage from past relationships as they age.
For men this often manifests as opting to just sleep around.
Of course you're going to find damage men, All we want to be is loved,
Loved.. Or Drunk, lol..
nope, definitely loved, Like..
We spend more than half our lives, searching for someone to just be with, to have fun with, maybe more maybe a little less, depends on the couple , right?
It's difficult when life just wants to kill you, since, everything or rather, everyone fun is just going to kill you, unintentionally of course...
.. Some may be intentional.
I am beat down now do you want me?
Oh no! I have only 4 years left! What should I do :( ?
no I think guys usually get better when they're older
nah we justifiably don't trust women though
Don't forget about guys who have been rejected by women their whole lives.
A guy gets sick of women's shit after a while. Combine our personal experiences with watching our dads get divorced and lose his money and his house, you start getting skeptical if a woman can actually bring any value into your life. Pump and dump, only interaction with women that makes sense.
Men are not as idealistic in general. And relationships are not quite as important to the male pshyce.(note I said not quite as important). This is why I think women continue to keep faith in love.
Also biologically the relationship seems to be more important to the female mating strategy
Most people by 24 have experienced at least one bad break up. How they let that dictate the rest of their life depends on if they're a wuss or not.
YES! they're all fucking nuts.
OF COURSE... NOT.
Geez, I'm dating a 27 who is super bitter with women. He's trying so hard but it's like a constant battle within him. I can see how that would make sense though. We're all happy and naive when we're younger and dating. Then we get hurt over and over again and change. But man it sucks being on the receiving end of all that bitterness I tell ya. Good luck and try to be good to him
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