Right now, I'm trying out this OkCupid dating site for the first time just to see how it is. I'm usually very reluctant to even send messages to a random woman on the internet but I figured I might as well give it one shot since I'm always to busy to be making new friends or finding a woman to be in a relationship with. There's one woman that I've found that I think maybe the right person but I'm not so sure.
Should I give it a shot?
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I voted yes. Worth a shot.
I did OKcupid but it didn't work out for me. They have a blog section that goes into details about how men and women choose each other. It's all very interesting. They've actually studied their records and provided data showing how women rate themselves very highly and are super selective about who they even message back. The prevailing idea is that "if I'm on a website then I'm only going to accept the best".
Whatever the case is, MOST guys don't have any success with websites. I know I didn't. My cousins didn't. Except one, he's Hispanic, 6'4", 220 lbs, money... who by the way doesn't have ANY problems getting girls in the real world; chicks literally walk up to him every day and start talking. What's my point? It really only works for the guys who are already successful for the obvious reason: looks.
Most guys go for the shotgun method. Just start messaging any girl you find remotely attractive. Don't just copy and paste tho, that's too obvious. Try to tailor the messages a little. Honestly, length has jack shit to do with responses. You can write a book and not get a response from these twisted women. Just mention something exact or insightful and send it. If they like you they will respond.
Trust me on that bro, I've done it all. My friends have done it all.0
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