I met this guy about 2 months ago but nothing happened. He was in my city for work. We kept in touch and through a set of random happenings, I ended up getting a new job in his city. I messaged him when I got here, telling him that I was here and after assuring him that it wasn't a joke and I actually was in the same city, he said that he would meet me after work for a drink. We met up and had a good time. There were no awkward pauses, he offered to drive me to Ikea if I needed to buy things for my new apartment, and make some vague indications that we should go to the museum that he;d never been to before.
He walked me home and kissed me at the door. It got a bit hot and heavy so I invited him up. I know, I know!!! We didn't have actual sex but we did everything but. It was late and he was going away for the weekend and I only have a single bed in my apt so he left.
I didn't hear from him but hey he was away, right? It got to Tuesday and I messaged him, 'How was your trip?' and he replied like 2 mins after with a good message asking me how my first weekend in the city was. We text chatted for a bit and then it finished.
I really don't know what to do, does it seem like he likes me or is interested... surely if he did like me, he'd be more willing to get in contact. I don't want to be the one to constantly initiate contact.
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The fast reply says there's definitely something there, to me. Take it easy and if you hear nothing for a few days, don't worry. Most guys like space, and nothing scares us off faster than a tor**** of messages.
Perhaps give it a few days and see if he fancies going out around the city to sight-see, or grab a casual bite to eat?0