This may be because I dont get dating, but it seems like girls give a guy a million things he could do wrong, and one thing that he could do right for them to like you. The whole thing is a game of manipulation and in the girls eyes whoever can manipulate them the best or have the best game is the most attractive guy. I dont have the best game but I know Im a good guy and I just want to be upfront and genuine and get her to know me and vice versa but it seems girls are more concerned with petty bullshit so much so that I just think dating is a waste of time and I have better things to do. Why do girls judge a guy on this just because someone can or can't talk a good game doesn't mean they are not good in reality. Girls can't see who I am because they are preoccupied that I have bad game or other dumb stuff like hype with other women.
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Why is dating so stupid, why do we need to play dumb games instead of just get to know each other?
Likely dating is so stupid because people can eliminate others for any reason they want and others don't like it because that limits their chances of getting who they want. The lack of immediate gratification is more likely what others see as playing games.1
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