I feel as if two people are in a relationship they should talk often when they don't get to see each other. Sometimes my boyfriend won't text me all day and then text me late at night something short. I don't want to start the conversation all the time because I'll feel needy and annoying but all I really want is to know how his day is going or even to just hear his voice. I don't get good morning texts and my goodnight texts are rare. I feel like he does care about me but sometimes he doesn't know how to show it. We've been saying for three months and he hasn't even tried to initiate a makeout session. Is this normal, guys? I know he wants to take things slow but how slow can one go? I want to hold hands/hug in public but he isn't really a touchy kind of guy and it makes me self conscious. He's already told me he loves me for a guy who wants to take things slow. Please help.. I need advice
Most Helpful Girl
I get what you're going through!
Maybe he's actually busy... But in my experience, guys that like taking things really slow and don't text that often/don't show off how they like you that often are insecure. Not about your relationship, but about being so close to someone and sharing their life and feelings. He might be afraid to get hurt and feel slightly vulnerable. Try to show him you love him and that you're ready for when he is! He'll feel safer and will most likely be willing to open up and take more steps.
Good luck xx2
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