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No offense, but maybe it is due to your personality. I don't mean to be rude, but the way you've spoken to other girls here is quite... rude and not classy at all. Your post sounds very judgmental and can be taken very offensively for girls, so you can't blame them for feeling a bit offended. I don't mean this to be mean, I think you should really take an outsider's look at the situation and examine if maybe there's things in your personality that may give people the wrong idea about you.
I actually partially agree with you, as I'm one of those girls that everybody says is beautiful and one of the nicest people they've met. I've even been told that I'm wife-material, the perfect girlfriend, etc. But for some reason, guys don't want to date me. I've been told that guys are intimidated by me, they think they don't deserve me, or that I'll surely reject them. Which is kinda sad. So I guess maybe we have to do the approaching, which is quite scary for me, as I'm more shy.
Whether you're a troll or not, please seek mental help immediately.
Also, I didn't insult you. I specifically said it was not to insult you, it was to help you. I remained classy. I'm sorry you can't say the same.
I am same as you girl.. and it's really sad :/
Most attractive women act like the world owes them something for being attractive. They're so used to getting what they want because of their looks that they almost lose touch with things around them. Do attractive people have their struggles? Of course! However, some can come off as high maintanance, snobby, and not very approachable. Many attractive women have VERY high standards, they either expect someone who is equally attracted as they are or even more attractive and the average Joe feels like he can't add up, so why bother? Truth is, most men find you attractive I'm sure, they're probably just intimidated by you. Nobody likes to be rejected and I guess they feel like if they approach a hot girl, that will be the end result.
BINGO!!
Many attractive women don't have high standards at all I'm one of the many
@Queennaki MOST attractive women have high standards.
Many or most. Same thing, no?
I get what you are saying. I see it all the time like I don't know what it is with black guys and fat white ugly ass white chicks. I don't know maybe they give it out more lol? Maybe people just accept that they settled?
There was a girl who I tried to get with date this ugly ass guy with a unibrow like you could clearly see it. And always smelt bad. Just weird.
I'd like to be in your area I can't find any pretty single girls lol. You got to admit though its funny when your ex dates one of those people you are describing lol
Ha yeah it's just damn weird. Something freaking strange is going on where people r dating losers n freaks and it makes no sense
Haha yeah I don't know. I always seem to notice it with girls. Maybe due to a lack of confidence on how pretty they really are? And these guys know this and prey off of it and use it to their advantage.
well where do u live? im in florida and there are lots of girls here, i think but maybe i hear a lot of women are crazy too. but there are lots of single girls who are frustrated and can't find anyone to date. i had a neighbor and he said he had a girl he would have sex with b/c she couldnt find a guy to have sex with.. its that bad. like she'd go to him.. it's so weird.. maybe some of those girls are insecure or honestly, they can't find anyone else- kind of like me... i end up with weird creepy guys cuz it's all i can get :)
Wisconsin. Florida is a ways away from me lol. Well yeah that's the other thing is that there are hot girls but they can be crazy and wacko lol. Wow that is sad. Well hopefully not maybe you can find a decent guy soon. :)
Thr fuck are you talking about... you don't get what it is with black guys?
Not calling you a racist, but what does this mean?
Pretty girls often have higher standards than these "fugly" girls of whom you speak... and for good reason, I suppose. Also, oftentimes, whether the girl truly is approachable or not, guys often think that "super hot" girls are too good for them, so they tend to focus on girls they believe are in their leagues.
Also something to consider: Are you really as attractive as you think you are? I'm not saying you're unattractive, but you seem to think men should be worshiping you... That in itself is not attractive. Just sayin'.
Wow... I think it is fairly obvious why you are being overlooked... you sound arrogant, have one hell of an attitude problem and looks fade.
Before you think i am one of these 'Fugly' girls you refer to, I am not. I am a model, with a genius level IQ, a decent job and I have never struggled for men because I have the substance to back it up. The only ugly person here appears to be you with your ugly personality. You will be a girl guys use and leave as they will not want to stay unless you change and realise you are not THAT amazing.
Well... I dono what to tell you. Maybe its the guys you are around. But as far as guys only being with ugly girls... well I'm not ugly. I consider myself cute. And sure my personality might be annoying to some people cause well to be honest I'm a geek and a lot of times a complete dork with those Im comfortable with. When im not comfortable I am really quiet and my life is pretty boring. But the guy Im with loves my personality and we click. I honestly thought that no guy would ever like me or treat me well. But when I decided to take a chance with a guy who isn't the typical guy I find myself drawn to physically, I was able to nab a guy who I'm slowly falling in love with.
Its really easy to see the negative but dont hate all guys. There are some good ones. you just have to open yourself up to finding a guy in the least likely places.
well most of the pretty ones are aware that they are hot and pretty so they come off as arrogant and always think that they deserve a perfect guy... well in reality there is no perfect guy, pretty girls are high maintenance and live like a princess and plus the pretty ones are not approachable and most of the time they are taken... so most of the guys go to ugly and average girls because they are most likely approachable and more attainable than the pretty ones... well the pretty ones dont have to worry because they have more options than the ugly and average ones
in addition to that... if guys chasing her are ugly the girl will label them as stalkers and creeps but if guys are attractive the girl will label them as admirers... not fair...
LOL this is not what I've observed. Usually all the pretty girls are the ones who date the most guys. Which makes sense. Though I guess you could have a different experience. Maybe us "fugly" girls have something else to offer, like kindness or loyalty. But I guess that wouldn't make sense because a guy should judge based solely on her looks. Lol
You're not fugly. Er
Well, that's not really true, I see many men with gorgeous women, the problem comes when beautiful women believe they're better than others just because they're beautiful. Those type of women come us as unapproachable, as stuck up bitches, and honestly, no man wants to be with that. Unfortunately there are many beautiful women that act like this.
Another reason is that some men believe they're not good enough for them, they feel intimidated so they rather not approach to not be embarrassed.
But saying that men don't like beautiful women is a stupid generalization, and you assume that because they have a beautiful body, they'll have a beautiful personality too, and those don't come together by default.
Oh, and by the way, beauty is subjective.
every stuck up b*tch i know.. has always had a guy.. ugly or pretty.. i knew a pretty girl.. she was such a b*tch.. she called herself princess.. walked around like she was a queen.. i hated her so much. im pretty and cud never imagine doing that crap.. but she ALWAYS had a husband or boyfriend.. men kiss up to her.. im prettier than her but.. im nice so men have no interest.. men like stuck up women.. they think nice women r stuck up and cater to the mean ones..
Don't know where I fit in on this looks wise but I agree. I've seen a lot of guys with girls who are really mean. Though they were physically pretty. I've also seen some females that looked the way they acted with good looking guys. To me it's the personality I notice first because that's what's important. So I will rephrase the question. Why do guys like mean girls?
thats true--they do like mean girls.. they like controlling arrogant b*tchy women and become her slave.. males r screwed up..
Not sure. I personally avoid mean people. And I don't think that guys look for mean women. Maybe it could be that the mean women are not mean to the men but are just mean to other women.
Or could this be the equivalent of what we guys talk about? And that is women dating bad guys and rejecting nice guys?
Yes. Men take advantage of nice women because they know they can get away with it. No one can abuse a sociopath they become the victims. In this case the males Turn out to be the predators because the women are nice and insecure usually
Typically if the guy is with a really mean girl, it is because he lacks confidence and she was the one girl that asked him out, or that he had enough confidence enough to approach. If he breaks up with her, he then fears he won't be able to find anyone else.
basically that happens becuse they find pretty girls "hard" to approach
So they see it as settling
I can't get a bf sex nothing because I'm pretty. It's a weird ass society
So bottom line, I should let myself go entirely, become unattractive and complacent and I'll find happiness? Fucking great!!!
I don't think that's true. I see pretty women in relationships all the time. Perhaps it's just you, because of your poor attitude and personality.
Take a look at her responses to people! She flies off the handle and wonders why people steer clear of her!
@CHARismatic110 hahaha! Wow, not surprising. It always seems to be people like that asking why they're single -_-
It's interesting when people who act like you're acting complain about being single. You're the only one on this thread name calling everyone. Grow up.
Pretty girls make guys dumb. They get intimidated, confused and project their feelings onto the girl. Girls can't even understand it because I'm not sure there's an equivalent unless it's being around a guy that's supremely confident, funny and charming.
In economics, there is a Theory Of The Second Best. If the optimal outcome is too difficult or costly to achieve, going for a more achievable outcome. Perhaps it applies to dating as well?
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_the_second_best
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Very well then.
Hahaha!
I couldn't have put it any better :)
Well this may be a shocker, but not everyone you deem "fugly" is actually seen that way by others. Most hot girls only date a certain type of guy which is few and far between. And most really pretty girls I know are ugly on the inside.
Just because you feel like fat, ugly or average girls deserve to be shipped off somewhere doesn't mean that everyone feels that way. I'm "fat" and average but guess what? My personality is one and a million 😊
i donit feel that way at all... lots of fat ugly women are single and lonely too.. fat ugly women are always putting me down or mean to me... so are men so when i see a guy who treats me like dirt, end up with a fat ugly female who will also treat me like dirt.. it pisses me off.. and a lot of those fat ugly women are pretty repulsive people.. the mean ones... yet guys like them..
i dont judge or hate people based on their looks.. i hate fat women b/c they hate me first.. not fat women but most women in general.. but esp fat ugly women and they act like theyre better than me and treat me like crap..
Well then focus on people who aren't rude to you. Not the ones that are. And if you feel like everyone is being rude and mean to you then maybe you should take a step back and look at yourself.
Def not true if ur nice and people are rude it' ain't you. Stop giving bad advice u sound like the kind of nasty women who hate on nice people
Far from it. You seem like the type to expect people to fall all over themselves because you're pretty.
Not at all I expect to be treated with respect. Sayijg someone mistreats u has no association with people falling all over you. People disrespect pretty women for fun. So again. Stupid assumption and comment which displays ur bs
Ok doll. Well I hope you find the guy you're looking for. Have a good one.
its funny how when i encounter females like u.. i even tried smiling recently.. and same thing.. i get a 'wtf' rude look.. its sad how kind people like me try to connect with nasty people like u and others here an donly get hatred.. its b/c ur hateful sh*tty people with the WORST personalities.. and ur ugly on the inside and out... u and all the nasty males here.. with similar comments..
I beg to differ, just because you are pretty doesn't make you a ugly on the inside. One day you will learn this, when you reach a higher existence, consciousness, intelligence and step outside of this ridiculous world everyone is trapped in. Its almost like the ugly girls work harder to be the subservient, complacent, bow down to his amazingness so we can show the pretty bitches who's in charge. I'm sick of it quite frankly... you guys can have them all anyway. When you find yourself, true inner self, I hope you spend time in a quandary on how to 'rectify' your negativity in this lifetime due to jealously. Quite a price to pay... have fun with it! Some people cannot help what they look like, even pretty ones... Damn, people really?
@stilllearning77 what are you even talking about? Who's jealous of anybody? And if I'm negative it's because of this negative ass post.
Well I don't know where I fit in this situation
Imma the fugly fat girl or
Imma the cute girl oh boy what a dilemma
What should I do?
Someone call 1800-411-pain
Guess what I don't give a damn I'm single by choice and with good reason people are so shallow and empty now a days is befalling and mind blowing. I'm leaving this post is giving me cancer
Your posts says you're 30-35 but you sound like a teenager. What i'm trying to say is you sound very unstable and erratic. Ugly, overweight women get rejected almost as much as ugly, over weight men. Really, just calm the fuck down... This is the craziest rant I've read on here in a while.
look, If you're moderately attractive and are reasonably pleasant and have realistic standards you'll find someone. If you're still single then you likely have an issue with the last two requirements.
no i do not sound unstable and erratic.. you sound like a misogynistic pig to even assert that.. and what makes you so 'mature'.. you're arrogant and rude.. its you disgustign rude crappy people who go around putting others down and talking about yourself... you're a total psychopath
I was actually questioning the asked's age too. She actually sounds like a few girls I used to know in middle school
I mean that response doesn't help your case. I'm giving you an honest assessment here, Unstable is the best way to describe it. You're kinda overreacting aren't you? They way you attack everyone in such a hurtful, malicious manner is a huge red flag. You're averaging about 5-6 sharp insults per response (more towards the women). You want men to approach you? Try not taking every critique as a personal attack.
Because those girls aren't actually "blah" and they most certainly are not so judgmental. They also don't think that caking makeup all over their face is what would make them attractive individuals.
actually they are VERY blah.. there's nothing appealing but a relaly fat ugly girl who is scary looking with an OK personality over a cute girl with a GREAT personality... they are repulsive but it seems males like repulsive and lots of hot girls dont wear make up
I would need pictures to verify the claim
im not judgmental nor do i wear make up. but im really pretty and desirable and men are heavily turned on by me and just reject me. im really laid back not controlling at all... but guys run away from me b/c im pretty.. makes no rational sense.. then everyones jealous b/c they think i can get any guy i want and get anyone i want.. men are jealous of me b/c im pretty.. so it makes no sense..
Natural beauty here, no caking make-up, same dilemma. Sorry, that doesn't always apply Mesonfielde. But most of 'those' girls are submissive, insecure and subservient... wouldn't you say if you could 'truly' look inside yourself?
Nope it has to be something with the "pretty girls" no guy is gonna be mean just for no reason unless he just wants sex. Maybe you just have bad luck with guys and attract the wrong guys that happens but that doesn't mean you should hate on so called"ugly girls" and the "fat females" a man like what he likes. What kind of shit is that to make this QA and you can't category all guys in this because some guys feel as though pretty women are stuck with assholes who ain't right at all but when an attractive nice guy comes around he never really gets the time of day so it's the same thing with women well if everyone. This question really says more about yourself than the men and the women they like if you ask me
Nope there r tons of hot women who ask the same question