Do I have a right to be annoyed by it? I've made it pretty clear to her how much it irks me. I just don't understand how she can be on her phone literally all day (she doesn't have a job right now) while I'm gone at work, during which she tells me how much she misses me and how bored and miserable she is without me. Then when I actually am home and we're hanging out, she's still on it just as much and when she finally sets it down somewhere, she still has to constantly keep an eye on it and drop everything if someones texts her.
I feel like I give her 100% of my attention while she maybe gives me 10% of hers. And when she's typing or something, I'm ignored til she's done 'cause multitasking is impossible for her I suppose. Part of the reason she's on is so much is tumblr. She has a mildly popular (porn) blog at nearly 5k followers, who often ask her questions and such. I just feel like she values them and her phone more than she does me and it just makes me feel like shit and unwanted. I treat her like a princess and I feel like I'm a sideshow for the main attraction--her phone.
What can I doooo? Help :(
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Yea that would be really annoying. I would sit her down and talk to her, maybe make it really clear that her being on her phone really irks you and hurts your feelings. Ask her if she could maybe work on being on her phone or her blog while you're gone at work, and then when you come home, for her to put it away and spend time with you.0
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