Because it seems like that's the only thing they feel attracted to. I don't wanna be the nice guy anymore but I don't know how to treat girls like shit too.
Any advice? Thanks!
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Man, it's not really a matter of treating them like shit, but rather to have priorities.
And options, that's really important. When you have options, it takes you a long time before feeling a bit attached to a girl.
Never forget that, at first, the girl is a stranger, and as such, she has done nothing to deserve your attention, you don't even know her.
Don't try impressing the girls, live the most fulfilling, passionate, interesting life you can on your own, do what the f*ck you want in your life, stop caring about "girls" or "love" and "feelings". Leave that to the women if they feel like it.
Don't care about what they think. Be genuine in your passions.
Maximize your looks, which is get to your ideal weight, you really don't have to get ripped, but the gym has a positive impact on your mood also.
Get a nice haircut, some nice clothes (you don't have to dress like a fashion addict, but get a bit of style)
Live your life as if it was a movie, and you were the main character (the hero). Don't make it a chick flick. Make it a man's movie.
And most importantly, realize your own worth. If you think you're not worth anything, then work toward building your worth (hint: your actual worth first comes from within, and is never, never about your ability to get girls. This comes once you KNOW you've got massive worth)
Once you're satisfied with your life, chances are you'll be so genuinely busy, or focused, that you won't care much about what that cute girl you met thinks of you, you'll be assertive, and you won't even be able to be "nice", it's gonna be literally impossible, you'll value your time and attention too much.