We go on dates, we're intimate, he drives an hour each way to see me, we call and text each other practically every day, he gives me cute little gifts like flowers and a necklace, he says all these sweet things, and that he really likes me and has feelings for me (I feel the same), and I've even met his parents... but he's not ready for us to be an official couple? We agreed not to see anyone else three dates in, but his reluctance here confuses me a lot. We've been dating for months now.
When I've brought it up, he says I'm over-thinking it, we're having fun and spending time together, taking it day by day etc. It's contented me for now, but I'm still bothered by it. Whatever he says, he doesn't act like we're just casually seeing each other.
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"When I've brought it up, he says I'm over-thinking it,"
I am very okay with women knowing where i stand while we're dating. Women hate not knowing and feel that if they ask it scares guys away. F-that, if you want to know then ask, the guy should tell you.
"I like you however i'd still like things to go slow. I feel we'd be a good match for a relationship but i still need time. If i ever feel that we aren't a good match, i promise to let you know so that we're not wasting anyone's time. Please do the same for me."