so guys, would you date a girl who used to self-harm? she has quit now but she has scars. Like for example i used to self-harm and i quit but i have over 200 scars on my left forearm. from a distance they are not noticeable but up close if you look there you can see them. would you mind if she wrote something also? again i wrote "forgive me" when i was 15 and 3 years later you can still faintly see it. so would you guys think of that as a deal breaker even though it was in her past and its just the battle scars that remain? Or would you be fine with it understand her and look past it?
- i would dateVote A
- i would never dateVote B
- dependsVote C
- ew, omg what the hell is wrong with herVote D
- resultsVote E
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It would most certainly be shocking. Also id be kinda hurt by it. Its so sad when humans herm themselves. Humans are worth so much and are so precious. They were created perfect, a masterpiece. Don't harm yourself because the Lord loves you so much.1