I just want to see differences in opinions.
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Personally I prefer class (not social class) over hotness; it may look cute and funny to do stupid s*** drunk on YouTube, but how classy is it? I also prefer elegance over hotness; a woman in maxi dress can be and often is more appealing than a girl in quasi-skank clothing.
I also prefer dynamic women; who enjoy a night in or a night on the town; who like all sorts of music; who can be swanky and classy but also go hiking or off-roading, is a reader and a writer, a lover and a fighter, who listens and speaks her mind...
I also prefer a woman who will let me be nice to her; treat her the whole spectrum of nice; everything from "take her to and through Europe" to "pick up her dry cleaning on the way home from work." I won't try and order her food for her or tell her what to wear or whatnot, but if I open the door for her it is off-putting to hear "I can get it myself!"
Plus, a woman who acknowledges that I am not just her guy; I have many other roles; son, brother, student, employee... I acknowledge she is more than just my woman; she is a sister, a daughter, and whatever else she is. We need time together, we need time apart. If I want to go on a weekend road trip by myself that's fine with her; if she wants a weekend wine-tasting with her girlfriends, that's fine with me.
There's my two cents. I hope it's reasonable.0