Putting aside generic reasons such as clingy, psycho etc. If its a nice girl and you enjoy her company, even pursue her or are dating her for a while, what makesa guy decide to take the extra step towards a relationship/committment/something serious?
Guys never commit to me so I wonder what it is
Most Helpful Girl
1. they usually bolt & run when they begin to feel trapped in something that would not be an ideal everyday scenario
2. there's something amiss long term that makes only short stays palatable
3. you ARE getting guys, so the attraction is there, so there's something about them that never matches - perhaps your meeting venues also attract the short term players and this needs to change to where the long term shoppers are
4. perhaps your attraction strengths need to be changed so that the long term thinking guys can have a chance to meet you1
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