I'm a 19 year old who never has had an official date, I had some girls pursue me that I wasn't attracted to and the few girls I pursued shot me down in the past. I'm certainly not a recluse or anything don't think that, I took the class 'beauty queen' to prom so people genuinely like me but I'm worried if I do ever get a girl to say yes that my lack of experience will turn her off. Now dating is something I take serious and I'd never screw around or do anything I felt was wrong, so that being said I would never 'practice' on girls I wasn't attracted to like some guys do, (a lot have told me try it) I mean I have decently high standards but genuinely take it serious. A big problem for me may be well...I have a scalp condition where I permanently lost hair, I have no option but to shave it to the skin. So even if somehow an attractive girl could see past no hair, I feel like it doesn't blend with no experience. So young ladies, how do you feel about guys with no legit experience? And combined with the shaved head does this make attracting a decent girl I'd be attracted to while still young much harder or next to impossible? I just feel like this puts a nail in the coffin for dating or having options.
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Well okay about the inexperience... I think it's best to find a girl in the same ball park as you in that way! For me personally, I've always been the one in the situation who's had less experience and guys tend to find it "cute". I'm thinking it'd be the same for girls. I think finding a girl who could explore and figure things out with you would build your confidence and help you two bond more. About the shaved head, some girls really like that look, not going to lie! Some girls like the buzz cut look and a lot of guys can pull it off! So I'm sure you can too! Don't feel insecure about it, you'll find a girl who will love it. I had a boy I was dating always bag on his hair, saying how much he hated it. But I loved it. What you might think could hinder your dating might actually be something a girl likes about you!1