My bf is 27 almost 28 and he is moving from pa to Georgia at the end of this week. His mom lives 10 minutes away from him and she invited him over for dinner yesterday. Well we get there and it is his step dad and his 26 year old brother and his 21 year old brother and his mom. His mom looks upset when we walked in for some reason. We had dinner kind of awkwardly and later on my bf says that his mom texted him after the dinner saying that she thought it was just going to be a family dinner. He said well insert my name is part of the family she is my gf of 4 years and soon we are going to be long distance and I won't see her a lot until she moves down there. I just feel upset that she didn't want me there Its always been assumed in the last that I'm invited why the sudden change after 4 years? Me and her always had a good relationship and we always gotten along well. What's the deal?
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Sounds like miscommunication between her and her son. It was probably not anything personal against you - especially since you say you two have always gotten along - but perhaps she had intended to have a family dinner with just her boys, but forgot to communicate that to your boyfriend, or thought that she had implied so but didn't, or she did say it or imply it but he didn't hear it or the message didn't sink in... who knows.1
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