My friends, both genders, insist there is a window of opportunity, so to speak, when you're trying to get with someone. Say you like someone, you hang out for a while, but no one makes a move ( they seem to think it had to be the guy) and the window closes. I think this is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Maybe I'm just more forward or progressive, but why do guys have to do everything? Also, that assumes that girls are commodities to be gotten, like a box of cereal. If you don't snap it up now, someone else will! If I like someone and I think he or she liked me, I wouldn't dismiss the chance of us being together if nothing happened by so many days or weeks. That just seems dumb and a great way to miss out on things.
- There is a window and you'd better not miss it.Vote A
- Window, what window?Vote B
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yeah I've had this happen , there is a period when its more easy to date someone or like a period of times when its best to try and make a move. and after so long that window can close and they might end up dating someone else or you might meet someone else or whatever. when you meet someone you can't expect them to be an option to date forever is only so long for that chance to exist0