So me and my bf have been together for 9 months and it went long distance 2 months into our relationship since he goes to school 5 hours away. I see him on short breaks when he comes to see me and his family. The longest we haven't seen each other is for 2 months straight which is really long. At first i didn't mind since we'd text and call but now he hardly texts or calls. He said last month he'd come down for Valentine's day but then said he couldn't last minute. I care for him but its time for me to move on. Problem is I don't know how to say it. He came down this week and i want to do it in person but im scared ima chicken out, but know i need to. But question is how do you break up with someone you care about so much? have any of you guys gone through this.??
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I had a complicated relationship with someone before. And i was in that situation where I didn't want to let go of him but I knew deep down that it was the right thing. Its scary to break up with someone but just know that there really isn't a "perfect" time for it. That's what I waited for but that time never came. So I just did it. I wasn't able to say exactly what I wanted to but that's normal. It wasn't the easiest or smoothest thing but after that you feel free and relieved. Just don't be afraid. If you care a lot about him and think that it's whats best for you both, then just hang on to that thought so that you don't chicken out last minute1