I was in a serious relationship for about 18 months with a girl. She cheated on me with some guy at a party. When I found out I broke up with her straight away. It has been 6 months since this happened. Since then, I have been on a number of dates and been in 2 relationships. In both of the relationships the girls cheated on me as well. Which is ridiculous because they were both very short relationships.
This has all led me to think that my ex girlfriend who I borke up with is the best that I can do. She was drunk, and she said it got out of hand. It may hurt, but honestly, if she cheats on me once every 18 months I could deal with that. So how do I get her back? What do I say? How do not appear needy?
Most Helpful Girl
Oh my gosh talk about bad luck! I'm so sorry you had to go through all that!
But don't give up!
You deserve a good girl who doesn't cheat on you and you can trust! Don't go back to a relationship you *know* won't work out. Take some time for yourself and do something that's fun for you! Take a class, join a gym, just some sort of change for you to look back and say YES! I did that. Then start thinking about girls again. You can take that new confidence and find the type of person you deserve!1
Most Helpful Guy
Hi there, first off, being drunk is no excuse since being drunk only brings out your true character.
Having said that, she will probably want you back if she sees you with other girls. So... let her see you with another girl. After she sees you with another girl, start making conversation with her via messaging. When she asks about the girl, tell her that you are dating for now and that the girl is really eager to do things quickly, to take it fast... so "you don't know exactly what to think or do"
Organise for you and her to meet up once you have had some deep conversations and then "take her back" You will have to make the move, she will take it.
You know what I mean?0