Okay so yeh here is the question. I do have lots of friends and we get along very well (at least i assume so O.o) and i shall say that im not bad looking in general (i wouldn't say i m a hot babe either), and im not socially awkward. But despite of having lots of friends and at least half of them are male, there aren't anyone that are interested in me and I've been single for my entire life.
Although there have been guys that showed interest, but their interests faded away soon.
And I've found that when guys say they aren't really interested in getting into a relationship, its simply mean they dont wannt get into a relationship with YOU. So I've seen several guys who didn't seen like they want a relationship when we kinda had a thing and about half year or a year later they ended up getting into relationshiop with another girl.
So i just want to know what are somethings that give guys signals of "this is girl is not okay" beside the obvious turn offs (ex. bad personal hygine, dumb af, ugly, fake, etc)? Be specific please :)
Most Helpful Guy
That's hard to tell without knowing more about your personality and your previous relationships.
Guys like girls who have the same interests and who are interested in thier hobbies and so on. Maybe you haven't been interesting enough for them on the long run.
Or maybe you tend to be the overly attached girlfriend type.
But it could have been/can be many, many other reasons too. It's really hard to know without further information.
But once you've figured out what the problem was I will be easier to find someone. Trust me, I had similar issues.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Ignore the whole guys don't like to feel inferior thing it's true but wrong. Men like to have sex with dumb girls however unless a relationship men live a girl that challenges them but not in a belittling way. That makes them want to be better. Your 19 at that age men are simple & want an easy girl they haven't muture all the way. I had the dance issues growing up but all the guys that I have dated in my life loved me & treated me great were super hot smart & weren't broke I will admit at first glance people be like what how did you get that... I'm not ugly just average highly opinionated very smart & a tomboy. My suggestion to you is be true to yourself smile a lot be happy & not crazy shy. Fine fun ways to flirt. Guys might think that your out of their league. My favorite trick is to be outgoing & a little flirty then when they flirt back or say something nice look down smile then look back up still smiling act like your trying not to smile then slightly bite your bottom lip. It let's the gut know you can challenge him & go toe to toe with him but that he makes you shy i. e he is the man.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE